I meet my new co-worker on my 3rd day here. I use the word co-worker because I don�t really know what else to call him. He is the Executive Director of CVCD, my partner organization, and who I will spend a lot of time with for the next 6 months. At the time, I am unaware of what an amazing person Sarath is or how much I will come to admire him. I just know I need to meet him, and hopefully we will find that we don�t hate working together. Within 10 minutes, and possibly less, he has invited me to spend the following Sunday with his family, visiting his home province. I accept without thinking. This seems like a huge honor and how could I possibly turn it down?
I wake up early Sunday. Sarath said they would probably leave early. I nodded eagerly. Of course, I think, I�m up at like, 7:00am or 8:00am every day, no problem. Sarath says, "Is 6:00am OK?" Note to self: early means early here. When Sarath drives up, the sweetest woman jumps out of the cab to greet me (I soon find out this is his wife), and the pick-up portion of the truck is filled with women of varying ages. I find out later, both his mother and aunt are in the back and spend the duration of the ride there, while I am comfortably seated inside the cab of the truck. (I am still a little haunted by this guilt).
However, I have a pressing concern. I am a caffeine addict. I'm not proud of this. But, I'm a Seattleite. Coffee is what I do. I consider it both a hobby and a pastime. I had intended to slowly ease back, eliminate the addiction in a nice timely sort of fashion, avoiding any undesirable side effects. Except, I didn't. And now, at 6am, there is no coffee. I am spending the day with people who I essentially would like to like me, and in about 4 hours, I am going to have a raging headache. Why did I let Imbert talk me into this?? And just like that - in something I can only describe as serendipity - Sarath's wife asks if I would like coffee. I almost break my neck nodding. It turns out she has a coffee addiction too. I am going to love these people!
Throughout the day I hear the word farang more times than the culmination of every previous trip I've taken to Asia. On a rational level I know it means foreigner. But, I'm not convinced they aren't really using it to mean beautiful stranger. That is at least the definition I decide is intended.
By the time I get home that evening, I cannot even believe I could have considered missing this. If their goal was to coerce me into falling in love with this country, then mission accomplished. But, just out of curiosity... does anyone know the actual incubation period for the bird flu?
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