The explosion had shattered not only her limb, but also her self-esteem. As we sat listening to her story, i wondered where her husband was and why i didn't remember ever hearing about him. She explained: she knew in her heart and soul that she wanted to raise a child -- to be a mother, but just as certainly she believed that no good man would ever again find her attractive enough to marry. Understand Phuong radiates life, she is fit, and her totally spontaneous smile warms your entire heart. She is truly a beautiful person. Tragically -criminally- the landmine had robbed her twice. Phunong did what she felt she had to do -- she had her child out of wedlock. And he is a gem.
Phuong is thirty now. About three years ago, she heard about a local race for disabled athletes and decided to enter -- using her standard issue prosthetic limb. And she blew past the rest of the field. The race organizer looked at the prosthesis that she had run on and told her to try a sports model that his organization happened to have -- it didn't fit her correctly, but she ran with it anyway and took the gold in the competition. She found an expert Prosthetist in Hanoi and had it fit to her residual limb. It is hers to keep as long as she continues to medal. This September she will be competing in the Vietnam national trials for para-athletes and has the chance to represent Vietnam internationally in the Paralympic games. Her physical prowess, bravery and discipline have enabled her to cobble together all the small awards from her many track and field triumphs so that she could purchase the small house that she and Minh live in. Phuong runs the 100 meter dash, the 4x100, the 4x400, and competes in the long and high jumps as well. The only coaching she gets is from a sports organization director -- not even an actual track coach. She gets only three weeks notice before a competition and is expected to train intensely within that time to prepare the next race. She is in need of a new prosthetic foot, but has no means to afford the better models now available in the States. If you would like to know how to help us support Phuong's obtaining a new prosthetic foot please contact me (wolfbrolley@yahoo.com) -- i'll be working in SE Asia for a couple of more weeks, but will be on that project when i return.
Phuong's wins in Vietnam are truly for all of her fellow UXO (unexploded ordinance) survivors - as well as for all disabled and challenged athletes. We counted up all the gold and silver medals that she had stashed away in a battered suitcase, but came up a few short of how many she said she had won so far. Bashfullly, reluctantly she confided that when athletes from other teams come back empty handed from a competition, she gives them one of her medals so they have something to show their community. This is Phuong through and through. Amazing.
wolfgang brolley
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